A personal message
This post is going to be a little cryptic. It is quite a personal post and will be relevant to one person. I meet up with someone who I care about a great deal recently. It has made me think about a few things. I realised that I have been so caught up in my own world and problems that I have neglected this person. I saw signs that something was wrong, but I didn't follow my instincts and pursue it. I briefly forgot who I was. I forgot to listen, to read the signs and know what was going on. Meeting them has reminded me who I am and what having me as a true friend is and what I can offer. I have been neglectful of this.
I will not make the same mistake again.
No matter what happens, I will always hold our friendship dear. No matter what paths our lives take and where we end up, what will remain constant is our relationship and what it stands for. I will always be here for you, whether you need a shoulder to cry on or just for some doofus like me to make you laugh and remind you that life is Ok.
Believe me, I know that if anyone can make your situation work it is you. You are a good, beautiful person and you deserve to be happy.
Please don't give up, and know that every step of the way, I will be there as well.
I will not make the same mistake again.
No matter what happens, I will always hold our friendship dear. No matter what paths our lives take and where we end up, what will remain constant is our relationship and what it stands for. I will always be here for you, whether you need a shoulder to cry on or just for some doofus like me to make you laugh and remind you that life is Ok.
Believe me, I know that if anyone can make your situation work it is you. You are a good, beautiful person and you deserve to be happy.
Please don't give up, and know that every step of the way, I will be there as well.


3 Comments:
You're a good man.
Don't be hard on yourself for not knowing / seeing / acting on your feelings... as people get older into situations they get stronger & are less likely to ask for help, even if they are finding things tough..... it's nice to hear you're there... but let people still be there for you too.
Just don't ask me to stop caring or worrying, because you know this goes against my nature. I can look after myself, as I know you can, but this doesn't mean we have to go through things alone, no matter how strong your resolve.
thank you - i really do appreicate you x
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