Wednesday, July 12, 2006

A personal message

This post is going to be a little cryptic. It is quite a personal post and will be relevant to one person. I meet up with someone who I care about a great deal recently. It has made me think about a few things. I realised that I have been so caught up in my own world and problems that I have neglected this person. I saw signs that something was wrong, but I didn't follow my instincts and pursue it. I briefly forgot who I was. I forgot to listen, to read the signs and know what was going on. Meeting them has reminded me who I am and what having me as a true friend is and what I can offer. I have been neglectful of this.

I will not make the same mistake again.

No matter what happens, I will always hold our friendship dear. No matter what paths our lives take and where we end up, what will remain constant is our relationship and what it stands for. I will always be here for you, whether you need a shoulder to cry on or just for some doofus like me to make you laugh and remind you that life is Ok.

Believe me, I know that if anyone can make your situation work it is you. You are a good, beautiful person and you deserve to be happy.

Please don't give up, and know that every step of the way, I will be there as well.

3 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

You're a good man.

Don't be hard on yourself for not knowing / seeing / acting on your feelings... as people get older into situations they get stronger & are less likely to ask for help, even if they are finding things tough..... it's nice to hear you're there... but let people still be there for you too.

10:06 am  
Blogger Tony Play said...

Just don't ask me to stop caring or worrying, because you know this goes against my nature. I can look after myself, as I know you can, but this doesn't mean we have to go through things alone, no matter how strong your resolve.

10:19 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

thank you - i really do appreicate you x

10:21 am  

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